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Stupidity

Life has been a mess for the past whole week. Juggling between work and family is not my strength. I certainly missed mum being around.

He just lost his respect from all his children. He knew it before and he definitely knows it now. But he's just too arrogant to come back and admit that it's his fault that things turn out so badly. I confronted him for his actions last night. I have never raised my voice against him, but yesterday, it's just really unbearable. If I knew what happened later after I left, I would have screamed my lungs out and bring my brothers along with me. Last night, what you did is plainly stupid.

Stupid, for leaving your family behind.
Stupid, for seeking for comfort from others while your wife is here waiting at home.
Stupid, for not caring over your children.
Stupid, for ignoring your responsibility as a son, a husband and a father.

You have definitely lost what you had all this while. All because of your ego, arrogance and stupidity.

Comments

hey Shar, I'm sorry to hear about mum. I pray that she will recover soonest possible.

Please be strong no matter what happens. You know that these stuff are only gonna make you stronger. :)

hugs~
deaflisteners said…
Hey Sandz, she's recovering fast. Will be back to work soon. Thanks for the prayers.

You know that it doesn't trouble me so much, just pity to my brothers and my mum. People can be really selfish and idiotic just like that.

I don't hope for him to come back, just to make sure my mum is healthy again. Yet, the damage is done. But no worries, I will be fine.

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