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Giving

After reading the history of Santa Claus (which was based on St. Nicholas' story), we had a conversation about meaning of Christmas. To Matia's surprise, Christmas is not about receiving gifts, and is to give away something.

Me: That's why we should be giving away something for Christmas, rather than ask for something.

Matia: But... i still want my toys. I want Beyblades! (his current interest..)

Me: But that's not what Christmases are for..

Matia: (after some deep thoughts...) Ok fine.. I will give away my toys.. only mine. I won't give away Nathan's toys.

Me: That's good! Glad you understand it.

Matia: But mommy said she will buy me Beyblades for birthday..  :D

I find that despite of not joining children church for the past year due to MCO, his understanding about concept of who God is are quite remarkable for his age. From time to time, he surprised us with his understanding from what he reads (or more like what I shared) in the bible and use it in daily lives. All I can pray for him is to keep seeking & encounter God as he grows up. 

Soon, we will be apart as they are moving into their new home. I am already starting to miss him so much, but as written in Ecclesiastes 3, there's time for everything, and it's time for them to go live as a family. And I should continue my journey apart from them. As much as I'm worried that his enthusiasm bout knowing God will diminished along the way, I trust God has His plans for Matia and his family. 

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