What a boring day.. It seems that my mind is not working again. Nadia went for conference in Beijing for a week, and I have the room for myself, alone. Which is something supposedly fine by me, but apparently not. Been cracking my head whole day doing write ups but the ideas are just stuck in there, regulating between the neurons without any result. Dr M went for entrepreneurial workshop in Tanjung Keling. This means I've gotta walk to and fro for work for the next three days. Perhaps it's a good time to burn some calories..
Some breakup stories from friends again.. Starting from my own breakup, there has been a number of them facing the same fate. Hah, maybe it's contagious, just like the bird flu virus. Oh.. bout bird flu, Indonesia just recorded 2 cases of human to human transmission of birdflu. Seems like the 'little fellow' has mutated again. Evil little things.. Should be more careful nowadays.
Yep, back to the breakup story. Another friend has regain her 'single and available' status again. It was a sad case of long distance relationship again. Another couple of 7 yrs broke up too. One could only ponder how 7 years of love, trust and understanding can be so fragile? The culprit was "having different vision and dreams"... It's 7 years man! But maybe, there's a reason of why it happened. Just wish their life would be better in the future. Just hope that all of the members, old and new in our "Heartbroken Clan" will be strong enough to go through yet another lesson in life.
Come to think of it, being single is not bad at all. I've already met few people who vowed for lifetime bachelorship. hahahaha...... I just felt lonely sometimes, especially when all of your friends are out with their other halves, or when they are talking about how "being loved and cared" they felt. But at least, it allows me all the freedom to do whatever i want, and not worrying about neglecting someone else. Talking about self-defense mechanisms. Anyhow, relationships come and gone, some developed deeper and ended in marriage and raise a family together, while some decided to give it a break.
Just wondering how does the perfect relationship looks like? How does the older generations get to maintain it so well, being married with the same partner for ages, as in their vow of "till death do us part"... while in our times, people are struggling to keep their marriages, and divorce and breaking up is so easy? One could only wonder...
Sometimes when i see old couples holding hands, walking together, side by side, caring for each other, looking over each other's shoulder just to make sure the other one is safe.. i couldnt help but smile. I envied so much the bonding between them.. That's what i call love..
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